John’s Story
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I grew up in a family with an absent father who was often working, and he was abusive both physically and mentally due to alcoholism. This pattern extended through generations. At one point, I had two sons, and I reached a breaking point where I realized they needed their father. So, I entered Mn Adult & Teen Challenge to become the man they needed.
During my time in the program, I’ve discovered a lot about myself. One of the most significant things is that I’ve realized I’m a natural-born servant.
A profound moment happened for me during worship one night. I was in the short-term program, about two months into it. I had received some distressing news about the death of a family friend. It triggered an emotional breakdown. However, this moment became a turning point. I felt that God was breaking me down to build me back up
When a close relative passed away while I was in the short-term program, I wanted to attend the funeral as the main pallbearer, but my request was denied. I went to the chapel that night, where about 20 fellow participants came over to me. They laid hands on me, and in that moment, I made up my mind to accept the situation.
I got tired of being behind the soundboard during choir practices and I wanted to sing. So, I asked to join, and it led to me becoming a soloist. Initially, soloing was nerve-wracking, but as people got more into it, I started to enjoy it.
Being in the choir has been a unique experience, and it’s helped me come out of my shell. It’s a vital part of my recovery. For newcomers hesitant about joining, I’d advise giving it a try. You don’t know until you try, and it could be a transformative experience for you as it has been for me
The choir, including soloing, has pushed me out of my comfort zone and helped me express myself. Now, I’m in a better place, and I’ve come to appreciate the choir’s role in my recovery journey.
I want to say to our donors, thank you so much. Your contributions have helped me and many other clients change our lives. We deeply appreciate your support.